Ego & Openness
87 · The Missing Fang
Ironically — logic, objective methods, blueprints do not matter as much as I want them to. Energy, frequency, emotions are everything. The correct paths are just manifestations. Dominate and win. You need that aggressive force — that you are the best fucking man — because without that ego you simply can't summon the force to dominate in high-stakes, high-pressure situations. The only way through is strong faith and powerful force. Hold this against everything I said about killing the ego. Both are true. The ego dies at the feedback stage and resurrects at the execution stage.
I need to give you real advice about the attitude you carry. I don't know why this is the case, but those who believe strongly and powerfully that they can and will achieve it — and act according to that faith — outperform those who work immensely hard while lacking that faith. It's something about the frequency of greatness and the wave of fortune. Tap into it.
You have to behave and act as if you are the king, a champion, a winner. Nothing good happens in a loser's mindset. Behave, act and think according to the version of you whose goals have already happened. A winner who takes Ws — that should be how you carry yourself. Hold such powerful faith in what you can achieve that the possibility of your wildest dreams not coming true doesn't even enter consciousness.
Ignore the reality that happens to you. Life happens through you, not to you. It's about the feeling — the feeling of already having received the desire. Walk in confidence, dress like that person, live that reality. Allow your imagined circumstance to be more real than the actual circumstance. Keep living at the end, as the version of yourself you know you're destined to be. At the end of the day, you want the things in life because of the emotions they give you — but ironically, for big goals, the emotions must come first. Feel the frequencies, and the circumstances manifest and amplify them. I don't know why this is how the world works, but it is. Working and toiling in the attitude of destitution ends as toil. Carry yourself as the person who has already achieved what you set out to achieve. It is already done.
Frame yourself as the massive person — the king on the throne. The way you think of yourself manifests, not just socially, but into the achievements of your life. Momentum, energy and frequency are almost everything in getting what you want. The way you carry yourself, the energy you vibrate at, the momentum you keep.
How would you carry yourself if you were making a million dollars a month from your own business? Act and behave and think in accordance with that framework. Framing is that strong. Perspective. Angle. Direction. Let the past version of yourself pass by; act as the person you know you will become. Be indifferent to the things you don't like — and to the things that seem not to like you. It works like magic. Don't resist, don't fight, don't avoid — confront without the existence of emotion. The best analogy: walking through the zoo, past the gorilla. You don't fight it. You don't flinch at it. You walk past it.
Also — the energy of a leader matters enormously. I saw it firsthand at Tim Hortons: the emotional energy, the sentiment of a team, must be driven, excited, passionate, lighthearted. Burying your head in work without that lightheartedness is paradoxically counterproductive. The missing fang isn't cruelty — it's charge. Voltage. The room should feel different when you walk in, because you decided it would.